I'm up and out. Who's The_Equalizer?

You might even say, "Of course I know him! He's me!"
(Or you wouldn't, I don't know.)

G-man: Yeah, that's a great line. I have no idea who the equalizer is though. Master LW, may you enlighten us?

Hmm... another time, another time, youngling.

"Lost a story Master Wilderness has. How embarrassing! How embarrassing . . . ."

😂

So, just random question in dealing with people... but if you're in a messy situation with someone else, and there are faults on both sides, what's the best way to deal with it?

Note😦I'm not asking this because I'm in a messy situation myself 😂, I'm just start'n a conversation).

You make both sides apologize to each other and recognize that both of then caused the arguement. Beyond that, I dunno.

The_Equalizer, I only heard of a user with that name a few minutes ago.

Greenie: If you're on a side, take the blame. Apologize for what you've caused, even if the other side had a heavy hand in it. Often people will be compelled by an apology to make one themselves, and even if the other side doesn't apologize, you've done the right thing. But in terms of viewing an argument like this, IDK. Maybe blame yourself? Find some way to make it your fault? As I said, people will be compelled to apologize when they see an apology, especially if they know that that person did nothing wrong. Beyond that, psychology is one of the most complex subjects on earth. 😆

Good morning guys 😂. Yeah, my question isn't the easiest. Though I'm not an expert at this, I'd say y'all both got it fairly right. If it is yourself who is involved, fix your own problem. Often nobody will surrender because they feel like they can't unless the other person surrenders first. In reality however, that's not true. The first to truly surrender and let go, is the first to walk away free. It's often about looking beyond what you see, and trying to fit yourself in the other person's shoes. I know I just said the impossible 😂, but, "in as much as it depends on you, strive for peace with everyone." With God all things are possible. I actually like discussing subjects like how to deal with people 😆

Greenie: Yes, although psychology is one of the most "complex subjects on earth," it's also one of the most interesting subjects on earth. That verse is one of my favorites, and also one of the hardest to live by. It's important though. Very important.

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I was the third to like that. It had 2 likes when I liked it. 😏

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Greenie: Don't worry, I won't forget. Ever . . . .

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